Why having a baby is such hard work

I know we hear it a lot from moms out there – “babies are hard work” !

Well they were right ! 🙈 Being a first time mom you don’t really realize how much of your time a child would take , and its not just the attention (which to me is the best part) but your other chores.

My whole day revolves around getting my baby to nap and eat at the right time ! Routine in this matter sucks ha ha it leaves no room for spontaneity or unplanned events .

In between these naps (which are sometimes only half an hour) I need to get to work (luckily we live on the same property as our lodge) and wash and make myself presentable and cook breakfast and dinner and make food for my baby and wash and sterilize bottles and and and and … there just never seem to be enough hours in the day to get to Everything!

That whole thing about “sleep when the baby sleeps” only works when you have a newborn, this type of sympathy disappears very quickly as your baby gets older and you become less emotional (admit it, we were all a wreck those first few days at home).

At the end of the day , you just got to keep on keeping on, there is no down time, nor do you get to quit because you do not feel well or you are having a bad day, motherhood builds character like no other situation in life, you learn selflessness in its purest form, and a type of love that no words can describe.

What an honor to be called mama !

Angelique

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Being a Mother is Like a Roller Coaster Ride

I am a first time mom , so that in itself already tells you that I am a bit all over the place , with well everything 🤣

But what gets to me is the fact that I feel like as soon as I figure the one thing out , the next thing hits me … and I have no clue what to do again.

Motherhood right !?

It is like she is just making sure I am still paying attention to her .

We just finished the most intense two weeks with a sleep consultant and guess what ?! Now we are teething 🙈

Its like the universe is out to get me , we spent the longest time getting her to self soother and to sleep in her own bed , it was great she did so well ! And last night ? I ended up sleeping in her room with her in my arms , the poor baby ! Its horrible seeing your child in pain and so unhappy , I am just so glad they don’t remember any of this !

So here we are , all routine out the window just trying to get through the day and praying that a tooth pops out VERY soon !

For all the mothers out there going through teething on zero sleep …. SALUTE

Angelique

The Next Milestone

Is it just me or are there other moms out there that look forward to the next big thing that their baby will learn to do?

People always tell me “oh you mustn’t wish their life away” – that is not at all what I am doing , I enjoy every phase she goes through , I even appreciate the hard ones, I am just so excited to see how she will be; her personality, what she will like and dislike, the things she will say, giving her, her first food, seeing her sit by herself, crawling, her first steps, her first day of school ….

I get goosebumps just thinking about all these things, because in a sense I am already proud of her for achieving all these things ! 😍👏🏻

I think there is just something so beautiful in being a new parent , a baby smiling for the first time warrants so much excitement in a household, the first time that baby hold a toy , the first time they roll over or bring something to their mouths, a baby brings so much joy to a family.

At this moment, I am counting down the days until I can start giving her her first food … I’ve already decided what to give, how to make it, and what date to start , haha can you tell I am excited ?

I don’t know if this type of excitement for new phases are different with your second child, but I hope not, because it keeps me looking forward to the little things with my baby girl, and to not take the new milestones for granted !

Today I am just so happy to be a mom , and just so so proud of my baby girl for accomplishing all she has already ! 💜🧡❤️

Angelique